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Joe Newton. You've said that everyone is entitled to a "zone of erotic autonomy. He's very dominant and controlling in bed and I'm very submissive, and I thought we were well-matched sexually. So it findomme a shock for more than one reason when I stumbled over evidence that he's been findomme money to a female sex worker who calls herself a FinDom. This has been going on for nearly three years! It seems clear from their messages I have read them all that they've never met in person she clearly states that she never meets in person with her subsbut she sends him degrading personalized videos after he sends her money roughly once every other month.

The findomme are small but they add up. We are more than comfortable, so the issue isn't the money. And while my husband has never complained about what I spend on a personal trainer or my hair or body treatments admittedly a lotthis is obviously different because findomme masturbating over these videos.

I don't really want to degrade him, and I obviously couldn't dominate him financially as our finances are shared. My husband says he doesn't want to be degraded by me, but he was nevertheless willing to pay a complete stranger to heap insults on him?!?

I don't understand. I thought we had findomme great sexual connection. I also thought I knew who he was erotically. I'm confused, and don't know what to do. First things first: You actually have a great sex life findomme the sound of thingsyour husband clearly loves you if this if your only issueand his dominance in the sack isn't an act, FINDAMN; it's just that having control isn't the only thing that turns him on. It's just that every once in a while he wants to give up control. No mortgage payments went unpaid, no vacations were canceled, no kids were yanked out of private schools.

But here's hoping Joe Biden's tax hikes on the wealthy do! As for the seeming contradiction — your husband dominates you and submits to this woman — it's not that hard to explain what's going on. So the guy you saw being dragged around on a leash on the first night will be dragging someone else around on a leash the second night. Similarly, you seem to bring out your husband's dominant side — much to your delight — while this other woman brings out his submissive side. And being submissive to an online FinDom once in a while doesn't mean there's anything inauthentic about your husband when he's dominating you.

If you don't want to degrade your husband — if you or if he or if you both prefer your roles to be fixed which is common among kinky switches — and your husband is willing to keep this connection 1 online only, 2 below an agreed-to amount, and 3 to himself if you don't want to hear about it or shared findomme you doI think you should allow your husband to have an outlet. Again, you can spare the money and your husband hasn't done anything stupid — he hasn't given this woman access to your savings s or written her into his will.

He's paying this woman for a little dominant time and attention every now and then. And while what your husband did basically purchased some interactive porn does feel cheating-adjacent I gotta ask Have you ever chosen a hairdresser because you liked to look at him? Have you ever gone out of your way to get body treatments from a VGL male masseuse? And then thought about one of those guys — or all three of them — while you were masturbating or having sex with your husband? If you can identify any small zones of erotic autonomy that you've carved out for yourself, FINDAMN, allowing your husband to continue enjoying the small zone of erotic autonomy he's carved out for himself might come a little easier.

I'm a year-old gay man who's having a hard time. I'm in a relationship with a spectacular guy. Findomme a year-old bisexual man. He's smart, funny, extroverted, and has lots of friends and lots of ex-fuckbuddies. We are deeply in love, and neither of us has ever felt that before. It's been five months and nothing could be better — except the fact that I'm deadly insecure. He's got tons of friends, he's extremely attractive, and sexually he's perfect. He's a top who knows how to use his big dick, and he has infinite endurance.

I keep comparing myself to him: He's perfect and he can fuck anyone, and I'm ugly and sexually inept compared to him. These feelings are killing me. Your boyfriend, who could apparently have anyone, has chosen you. So you're either far more appealing — physically, emotionally, socially — than you give yourself credit for, ICBTRO, or your boyfriend findomme off on the power imbalance. If he had said something to you like, "You'll never leave me because you can't do better," you would've included that. So I'm guessing you're a lot more appealing — physically, emotionally, socially — than you've allowed yourself to realize.

Instead of worrying about whether this relationship will findomme forever and most don'tICBTRO, try to enjoy the boyfriend you've got right now. Speak to a doctor about ED meds for your dick and speak to a shrink about your low self-esteem — because if anything is going to prematurely kill this relationship, it's your insecurities. But if you want to be with him for as long as you can, you've gotta get a grip on your insecurities. He can't help you with those. Stay connected with Detroit Metro Times. We findomme readers to submit letters regarding articles and content in Detroit Metro Times.

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